So I've mentioned in a few posts that something not good has happened on this trip, and that is that my last grandparent has passed away. We knew this was a possibility and I spent a good 3 hours with her before I left. She was so excited for me going on this trip and it's unfortunate she won't get to hear about my experiences.
I found out the 2nd night in Prague, which is why I was pretty chill the rest of the time. The day I found out had strange circumstance. I was visiting the bonechurch/ostuarry, and the largest building for miles around was the cathedral Santa Barbara. I had even lit a candle in the bonechurch as a general remembrance. Kinda of spooky to get the news later that night.
(Side note - the day my Mom's mom died was also kinda eerie. I was using Grandma June's UCLA tickets and Deshaun Foster ran for a record 350 yards and 4 TDs vs Washington. It was a fitting day.)
Going to the Prague Cathedral the day after I found out was helpful. I'm not overly
religious, but something felt right about being in the former capital of the Holy Roman Empire and thinking of my Catholic grandma.
Today (Wed, July 18th) she's being laid to rest in San Clemente and I was fortunate to stumble into St. Stephan's which had a number of side areas and a place where I could light a candle and reflect away from the tourists. I think I smiled more than anything. Every minor event in my life was always a big event in hers and the pride she took in her children and grandchildren will stay with us all forever.
Rest in Peace Grandma Bar. You will be missed and always loved.
(Ugh, it's getting all dusty in here.)
2 comments:
Sorry to hear about your Grandma my dear. I am glad you were in a beautiful place when you found out - it helps to put things in perspective. I am also glad that you are in Venice - that is the most incredible city and I am sure that your Grandma would be happy to know that you are thinking of her there.
Hey you...I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma passing :( I know she would want you to have a really good time on the rest of your trip so remember that. When my Grandpa passed away, he was Catholic too, I went straight to a church as well and it made me feel more connected to him. I'm real sorry again that you lost her...grandparents are awesome so it's always a big loss when they leave. The thing that has made me feel better is knowing they are know with their parents again and they left a lot of love for those in both places. Anyway, I will be thinking about you and keep your family in my prayers. Keep enjoying your trip for your Grandma, k :o) Miss you! Take care :o)
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